Destiny also Forces to Think!

India has a rich tradition of sages and sages and they have also contributed a lot in social reformation. This is the reason that in ancient times it was realized that man-woman relationship iwas like fire and this was the reason that every house in urban areas had a sitting room, whereas in rural areas, there was a specified place for the meetings of men, and the entry of outsider men into the women’s quarter was prohibited under the system of siege. There was a general system of men meeting men, and women meetng women a man's man and a woman's woman, due to which it was impossible for any domestic woman to have contact with any outsideranother mean. In such a situation, there was no question of physical contact. ITthen was a the time when our future was planned by us. Such an arrangement lasted for a very long time and it was a time of great peace. Time changed slowly at first and then very quickly. Social bonds started getting rRelaxedation and becoming flexibileity started coming in the social bonds and. Tthe way democracy has given freedom to the common people man for all-round development without monitoring, it has created complications of different nature. The government's leniency and neglect has also forced political parties and social organizations not to take action in areas that need improvement. Population growth can be held responsible for creating this situation. Due to the increase in population today some families are in such a situation that all its members are unable to even sleep at the same time, but this is such a situation that it cannot be shared with everyone. In such situations it is not possible to control the excess of emotions and if emotions get out of control, there is no limit to which they can it is spread then it is possible to go anywhere. At the same time, if the desire of sexual desire gratification is easily fulfilled, then the situation further incites that desire can get further incited. It is precisely these static such local factors that, along with the increase in audacity and , seem to encourage such actions elsewhere further. The modesty of the women of our country has also been seen aAs another causal factor the women class of our country shame and shyness can also be understood to be known. The tradition of the v Veil, and shame and modesty and self-respect have always been appreciated found patronage in India. There wasOnce upon a time in India when justice and injustice alsoit used to think for itself as well as for others be thought of on the basis of these standards, but as times changed, so did these standards also changed. Today the situation is such that in this context, thinking is being started only for oneself and the matter of creating different situations for others is being thought of everyone seems to think one set of standards apply to her/him, and another set of standards apply to others. This is the reason why many difficulties have to be faced for conviction of serious allegations like of heinous crimes misdeeds whether they are genuine or fabricated. In the same sequence, it can also be seen as a Yaksha major question that whether the dream of upliftment and empowerment of women seen by former Prime Minister Mrs. Indira Gandhi has been fulfilled as conceptualised by herin the light of her concept only?. If we consider this question, then probably the answer will come in only be 'Nno' only, because undoubtedly while there this class has been some empowerment of women upgraded, but some evils arehave also flourishing alongside with it. It is natural for such evils to flourish with advancement, which can even lead to physical contact, but had if even a little bit of caution, vigilance, and discipline had been exercised strictness were taken during this advancementupgrade period, we could have possibly avoidedthen the present complicated situations would not have to be faced. AThe happy aspect of this advancement is that even today there are innumerable women who have avoided situations that lead to physical contact. Self-confidence or self-controlfidence , and staying united are probably words expressions that have been coined for them. Another factor that has arisen today is loose behaviorso-called broad-mindedness. It is a psychological factor. Under the guise of this, by assessingtaking the statefathom of the other's mind, and by appropriatelygradually changing one’s ownthe behavior, the circumstances can beare used orand misused according to their to suit one’s own purpose. Women's mind is very delicatesoft and even a little pleasing environment can render endear them vulnerable and can seduce mislead them. If we analyse take cognizance of cases of like sexual exploitation and ill-treatment of women and insulting them, the so-called broad-mindedness of women will also emerge free behavior will also be seen as a factor somewhere. The overt sexual content and provocative presentation and displays on television and cinema today is also pushing the society towards unaccepatable social norms and undesirable expression and perverted experience of physical's provocative presentation of sexual games in television and cinema is also pushing us in one way or the other towards that uncomfortable environment which leads to perverted feeling of physical relations. This sensation, which appears to be new and enjoyable, can eventually become the cause of pain. Due to this, sexual desire is becoming an inflammatory factor instead of a self-controlled one. Everyone aspires for to have a long-lasting, suitable couple by making a happy and holy union like matrimonial union rites long-lasting. In this altered social situation, the search for a suitable groom for both rural and urban guardians has come to be focused on urban areas. Due to this, the number of unmarried youth in rural areas has been increasing. At the same time, the increased and relatively free availability internet and obscene videos in rural areas has resulted an increase in illicit relationships and rapes in rural areas. At present, in the search for this alliance in the changed environment, the number of unmarried people in the rural areas is increasing gradually due to the center of attention of the parents of both urban and rural areas becoming urban areas. Along with this, due to the spread of Internet in rural areas and the increase in the spread of obscene video material, the cases of illegal relations and rape are also increasing continuously. Not only this, two parallel classes are emerging in urban areas as 'working' people and 'lazy' people. Everyone has The physical urges and needs of everyone are the same, but the predominant requirements and the basis of selection assessing suitabilityprocess for marriage is not longer physical health and vitalityor virility, but 'money’ or the capability to make mone, and the nature, quality, and stability ofeans' and 'work' are on the top. This has created a worrying In such a situation, the situation is becoming deplorable in both rural and urban areas. In such situations, a change in attitude can come in a jiffy mindsets and thinking can change very quickly. Controlling this factor is a very difficult task in itself. A filmmaker has announced to make a film on During the final phase of the trial of the Aarushi-Hemraj murder case, a filmmaker announced his decision to make a film on the whole issuein the final phase of the trial. With this It was easy to understand from the announcement, it can be understood that as the main theme focus of the film is episode, most of the time will be kept for the erotic scenes of betweenAarushi and- Hemraj. In such a situation, the constructive or positive message becomes remains secondary toin front of the business objective. The Ssupreme Llife-giver does not provide any remedy for this entire creationwhole world; He only provides cluesgives indications. Everything else is left to the users. Deterrant The preventive measures have to be taken by the users only themselves. Therefore, we should also understand this sign that and we should not consider self-made circumstances as destiny. It is certain that many others must be going through situations similar to what the Talwar couple went through. Some would have compromised with the situationcondition, some would have protested, and some would have behaved equallynormally but they would not have been able to madke headlines. This is because similar situations have become normal today. Therefore, n we cannot even leave everything to the headlinesm. We should understand the signs clues and start looking for deterrantpreventive measures. We have to understand that remedies are also born with the problems – there is a need to find them and this is also research. Let us be determined and try to save the society as a whole from similar situations. Lest it happen that these very Such factors must not be allowed to take the form of a raging fire. Trendsetter (Edited by Hon. Sh. Jagdeep Chhokar)