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A person often finds themselves in a dilemma, unsure whether their existing knowledge, understanding, and values are correct or if the current circumstances are right. For example, we have learned that we should drive on the left side of the road, overtake from the right, not trouble anyone, and adhere to traffic rules. Ideally, those who follow the rules should be happy, while those who break them should face difficulties. However, in behavior, we observe the opposite happening in every aspect of life. In such situations, we are torn between following our life values or making decisions based on the circumstances.
When discussing dilemmas, two characters from the Mahabharata come to mind. One is Dharmaraj Yudhishthira, who faces the dilemma of whether to speak a lie about Ashwatthama's death or not. The other is Bhishma, who is witnessing Draupadi's disrobing and is torn between upholding royal duties or saving Draupadi. Those who have lived their lives based on truth find it difficult to lie, while those who have fulfilled their royal duties find it challenging to go against their own family. Bhishma followed the path he had walked his whole life, while Yudhishthira chose to deviate from his principles. Not everyone can be like Yudhishthira, who breaks the rules. However, sometimes our goals become so great that they redefine the definitions of right and wrong. Meera immersed herself in devotion to Krishna without caring about social norms. Sita did not worry about the Lakshmana Rekha (protective line) because she was concerned that the sadhus might be displeased and leave.
Everyone has their own perspective on what is right and wrong in their lives. Currently, we are contemplating where we can find stability and how we can break free from this dilemma to ensure that what we are doing is right.
Our first source of stability is our goals. We make decisions based on the traditions we carry and how we want to establish our identity in the world. Even if we face difficulties in fulfilling our goals or suffer losses, we will still have the stability that we are on the right path. However, if we cause trouble to others in order to achieve our goals, the realization of our wrongdoing will eventually trouble us. Even after achieving our goals, we will never experience true contentment if we are not satisfied with our actions. We are as free to choose our actions as we are bound to face their consequences.
Our second source of stability is our family and well-wishers. We should not deceive them. We should keep them informed about our goals, our work, and our activities, and avoid engaging in any actions that would embarrass them. People who isolate themselves from others, even after achieving immense success, end up being alone in the end. The stability we are discussing does not lie there. If a person keeps their family and well-wishers in mind, they can overcome many dilemmas.
Our third significant source of stability is our experiences. A person learns in three ways—through contemplation, by observing others, and from their own mistakes. These acquired experiences make us capable of making decisions. One should not hesitate to gain experiences. We should avoid taking risks that would put our lives in danger or make us insane, but if we can learn and understand something by taking small risks, we should not step back. Seeking advice from experienced individuals also helps us overcome many dilemmas. It is said that knowledge can have alternatives, but experKnowledge and skills are also significant sources of stability. Through books...ience cannot.
Yashwant Gehlaut (Writer)
Translated with the help of Chat GPT
मां की गोद से ऊंचाइयों तक गिरिराज की आत्मकथा "मां की ही वह गोद है, जहां मानवता पले, अगर कहीं है जन्नत तो उसके आंचल के तले..." यह पंक्ति मेरे जीवन का सार है — मेरी प्रेरणा, मेरा विश्वास और मेरी दिशा। जब मैं पांच साल का था, तभी पिता जी — भंवरलाल गुर्जर — हमें छोड़कर चले गए। मां, मोती देवी, उस समय केवल 26 वर्ष की थीं। उस उम्र में जब जीवन शुरू होता है, उन्होंने अपना पूरा जीवन मेरे भविष्य के नाम कर दिया। मजदूरी करते हुए उन्होंने न केवल मुझे पाला, बल्कि यह यकीन भी दिलाया कि शिक्षा ही वह कुंजी है जो हर ताला खोल सकती है। मां कहा करती थीं — "बेटा, गरीबी इंसान की हालत बदल सकती है, इरादा नहीं। मेहनत और ईमानदारी ही सबसे बड़ी पूंजी है।" यह वाक्य मेरे जीवन का संबल बन गया। लुहारा के सरकारी विद्यालय से मैंने पहली से आठवीं तक की पढ़ाई की। माध्यमिक शिक्षा मुंडिया से और उच्च माध्यमिक निवाई के राजकीय विद्यालय से प्राप्त की — जहां से मैंने 1994–95 में 12वीं कक्षा प्रथम श्रेणी से उत्तीर्ण की। आगे की पढ़ाई जयपुर के राजस्थान कॉलेज से की, जहां 1...
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